Too many couples and counsellors view conflict and romance as if they were two different things that were rooted in separate parts of a relationship. However, both romance and conflict are rooted in the same basic desires of our heart. The things that we "weaponize" in conflict are the things we want to be loved with in romance. This booklet takes three walks through Luke 9:23-24 to help a couple in conflict root their marital romance in the core themes of the gospel and discipleship.